Good evening my dear readers. So tonight I had a much dunked ego and slightly less damaged lip. Apparently I am not grown up enough to eat pizza without any kind of help. I managed to burn the side of my mouth and lip with some piping hot salami/peperoni oil. Ouch!
Other then that it has been a little bit of a quiet week, although I am making some progress (finally!) with unpacking my house. While I will not bore you very much with all the particular details, I finally got some energy to spare to direct to finding places for stuff to go. It’s a long way to go but I made good progress and hopefully by Christmas ninety percent of the things will be stored away!
While I was going to do some more serious writing above combination and a general feeling of being sore and tired/weary/worn-out means I had to look for other solutions. Luckily the solution for this game in the form of Tyra Love who posted a blog about her favourite and least favourite things. I met Tyra ages ago at the Cellar where she was doing some research for one of her blog posts on gags. Thus, this seemed like a good idea and some nice light subject to get my writing in, without sending my brain immediately into a huge meltdown and grey puddly mess.
A word of the “warning”; the information in this blog tonight, pertains mostly to the virtual world of Second Life. But let’s get started and see what my most favourite restraints are ;)
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Since, I am likely to be gone all or a larger portion of the Saturday with an ungoldly early start (seriously, what’s up with people doing stuff before noon?) I decided to be smart and write ahead of schedule.
Yes, there is a good chance I would be able to write this on Saturday evening. However I am still somewhat suffering from the cold, nor know what time I will be home. Add to this, that I have little idea yet what time I will be home, there is really no telling how tired I really may be. There is always the good chance that I am just too tired to do anything and after a hot bath, I’d rather just slump and sleep. Obviously with regards to writing that is not a risk I dare to take.
So far this week has been pretty uneventful. The cold put a whole damper on ones social life. But such are things. Second Life at the moment seems to be equally void of happenings, although I do frequent my old haunts on a regular basis. I think it’s a clear sign we are heading into the festive season and things are winding down.
In the department of some more positive news, having spent some time in my usual places in Second Life, it does mean I have gained several ideas for new blog posts but they need to ripen a little bit in my brain prior before putting them to paper. So for the moment, I fear you have to be satisfied with 15 various questions that I plucked of the source of all human knowledge, aka the Internet.
Interesting enough, the questions seems to have split themselves in to roughly three categories, owner related, service related and personal. So we shall see what the answers will bring us. For those however wondering; No, when choosing questions I have generally an idea if I want or can answer them but I don’t write the answer out until I well and truly sit down to write it. So sometimes, when the questions give me pause to think, the answer may even surprise myself.
So, with that said; let’s have a look at this weeks question round:
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Well I have seem to survived this week and even though I feel still tired and I do not feel entirely that despaired as I was feeling last week around. Which, all in all considered is a good thing. However, just to top it off, I think I may have caught a cold. I think running to a bus with my hair not one hundred percent dried may have started a cold. Either that or it is just the time of the year that this happens.
Does not help at all that this evening the Festival of Remembrance was on television. While Remembrance Day itself in the UK remains on the eleventh November, Remembrance Sunday and the Festival is pretty much depending whether it is the weekend before or after, depending which Sunday is the nearest.
Tonight was the Festival and the sad news was announced that Garrison Sergeant Major “Billy” Mott, was thinking of retiring from his position. While I have nothing more then respect for him, I think he will be sorely missed from the parades and his billowing voice. I am sure that he will train his successor to the highest possible standard that we have seen him perform at all these years.
So, all these things have as usual left me rather emotional. I can not help it, it is something that has been instilled from me from a young age (the respect for our armed forces, not being an emotional blubbering wreck, thank you very much.
Anyway, let’s head onwards with the main part of my blog. Since I wanted to write a bit more with sense then last time around; I decided for tonight to take ten questions from my favourite website: submissive prompts and answer them here:
Let’s go and look what random questions they have come up with:
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I am going to warn you, straight up and simple. This is not going to be a happy blog, this is not going to be a blog about BDSM either. This is a blog where I possibly waffle a whole lot to get it off my chest.
If one thing would permeate my days at the moment, it is the constant feeling that I am tired. Not just tired because of lack of sleep because for the first time in a long time, I am actually heading of to bed well before my curfew. Yes I am early in bed (well early for me anyway).
While Mistress cheerily tries to convince me that change is a wonderful thing to have happen to me and that there are many opportunities … while I agree with that to some extent (okay, rather I can see where she is coming from); the fact that the house needs a lot of work, combined with the fact that I have still so much to unpack and missing all the stuff around me, makes that my energy is seeping faster away then sleep and relaxation can replenish.
At the same time, I feel incredible ungrateful. I have my own, my first own house and while it needs work, I am pretty sure I am not moving away any time soon. So I have time to make things work for me and save up and get it all sorted. Plus that kind of money is not really thrown away. I will get it back in the long run if/when I sell this house. Still, at the moment it is all rather overwhelming.
But .. right ….
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Wow, never have I ever been so happy to make the switch in Daylight Saving Time. After spending a really late night talk with a close friend about stuff (I shall not reveal or divulge what it was about) that needed to be had, I went to my computer to sit down and write, knowing full well that the conversation has cost me a good hour.
I was thus pleasantly surprised to see that my clock instead of two am in the morning, pointed diligently at one am. I then realised what had happened. The clocks were supposed to go back an hour tonight. So essentially I got to something which was good and needed and gained an hour.
On the plus side, the living room is entering the first stage of its completion with my seventies style coffee table and dark red shag pile carpet. There’s a few more boxes to clear out, a few more boardgames to stow away and it is getting somewhere. Next up after that; either the hallways or one of the other rooms that is still blocked to ceiling with boxes.
Regardless, I fear that this blog won’t be a long one. I know I do my best to write as much as I can and I know I have a little bit of more time to play with then usual but the truth of the matter is, that not having everything sorted is very draining on my energy and I don’t feel I have ever been so weary, and in desire to catch up on sleep.
But not for now, even though my bed is calling, I have put on my headphones, set my play list to classical music. I shall blog first before rolling into bed.
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It’s been a rather stressful week all in all with unpacking, although somehow I think I am slowly but surely edging closer and closer to where I want to be. The bad news with the house is, I may have been had and there is an awful lot of work to do. But one room at the time I suppose and trying not to let myself get overwhelmed. It’s hard stopping myself from doing so.
But time shall tell. Still this made me almost forget that I had a blog to write. Rather not forget I had a blog to write, but forget that I needed a topic. So no research and nothing planned meant that anything was up for grabs.
Talking with Miss Mermaid, she mentioned wax play and how she enjoyed the visual stunning elements of it.. I went on fetlife to find some pretty pictures for her. Her enthusiasm was infectious and so I decided to roll with the topic. I do not think I have written much at all about wax play before. Mostly because it is something I have yet to engage in. May be one day.
So a quick introduction. What is wax play is a form of play where the submissive gets warm or hot wax poured over their naked body. Wax play is generally considered to be rather sensual in nature, but wax can be used with over a wide scale of intensity.
In this blog I will answer twenty questions regading wax play and what I think of them, how I see the issues surrounding wax play and end of with some safety information. All in all a well rounded introduction and for those interested in more, there are more then enough resources out there:
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I tried to write, but at the moment I am just having too many things going on. Of course I am still in the middle of the house move, which is taking me considerably more time then I was hoping for, not in the least place because I see things wrong with the house that need my attention to fixing. But in time I shall get there and I try keeping in mind that the foundations of the house are good and the rest may be cosmetics that I will get to there with time and patience. Now, if only I could believe what I tell myself as well.
My given choice for today was actually going to be some kind of BDSM meme, but , but from all the BDSM memes that I was looking at, it seemed one by one I have dome them all I have this afternoon started at least writing two only to discover by the fifth question that indeed I had done these all. So back I went for more inspiration.
I think with the amount of writing that I do, that I have so far done every single meme that I could think of. Sure, I am sure that some of them I could have done a lot more in depth (I am thinking such as the “thirty days of kink/bdsm”, and the “kinky alphabet series”. But since I am also having the made-up rule that I am supposed to write a decent amount of text (around fourteen to sixteen hundred words on average), sometimes it is easier to compact things rather then trying to write less then I want.
So, no memes to find; what is next?
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