My plans today for writing got pretty much scuppered and for this you can thank the weather. It has been absolute gorgeous spring weather around here which much meant that my mind has been on other things.

Add to this having to run into town to get my phone sorted – this meant that most of my time today that I had originally planned to devote to writing was gone faster then I could tell a really bad pun.

So last week blog was very well received with some comments that asked me to pay more attention at specific parts of the BDSM culture. I have already planned to do that next week. But this week I wanted to finish the second part of the common questions about BDSM.

This week has another 9 questions (I thought there were ten, but apparently I totally forget to count when it gets past midnight). And interestingly enough the seemed to rather flow into one another as you will see. Perhaps the last question is a little bit out of sorts but with the time looming onwards (I am really not used to staying up past twelve o’clock these days); to move things around will probably mean that I have to rewrite a large part of my blog. So you have to live with this

In the mean time my answers to nine more common questions about BDSM!
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I wish I could say I have better news but the late hour of the day combined with still not being used to my new schedule, especially what writing concerns means I have not yet gotten around to doing the march questions. It will happen, probably by march 2016 if my current writing endeavours are something to go by.

As the more observant reader may have reasoned, I am currently struggling with writing a lot more then last year. I have touched upon this on my blog, it’s by far neither a common occurrence for me to talk about this either.

All I am saying about this, is that my reluctance in writing is on par with my Mistress being absent in SL. It is not something I have touched upon earlier (yay, recurring team established in my blog). But unlike last year this seems to be harder as the time period where I have no contact at all, seems to have grown larger then ever before. And, in all fairness, I do not think I am taking it all that well.

I know there are people who think I should be calling it quits already. The truth of the matter is simply that I have always maintained that due to the length of our relationships I should give an equal length of time before making any decisions. And with that in mind, I have long decided that I would give her a year. After nearly 6 years being hers, the larger portion of my Second Life and all that she has done for me, both in Second Life and Real Life, I think I at least owe her that much.

But I will apart from this not dwell on this and try to get at least some writing in. And to start this off, I had promised to travel down the road to start writing more about BDSM again. This is a promise I am going to try and keep.

So while tonight I am not going to delve into anything deep, I am going to give it a start with ten ‘starter’ questions. I found this on several blogs on tumblr and is aptly called “Ten common questions about BDSM”. A refresher course if you will, or for those new, an introduction.

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Easter Blog!!

Yes, it is Easter again and despite my promise that I should answer some of my march Question and Answers this week around I totally had forgotten that I would go and visit family. Well, not forgotten that I was going to visit family but I forgot that I would have had taken my log files from Second Life and emails with me so that I could have exacted them while I sat here relaxing.

So, another failed attempt, I do apologise for that. I am pretty much not sure what to write about so I am going to do something what I am want to do in situations like this and that is just write free-style and talk about the things that occupy my mind at the current moment.

Hopefully next week I will get around to writing more about the March Questions that I have received and the answers that I have come up with. I also have a plan for writing something from my point of view about the right and duties of dominants. This is essentially a follow up to the “submissive rights” blog post I did a while back.

I have been asked to at least write a follow up called the consequences of certain behaviour in a submissive, especially the consequences of using your rights all too often. While I think it was meant too highlight what would happen if submissives use their rights as a shield to just throw it around (and yes, it does happen). Still it bears some thinking about.

If something is an inalienable right, one should have the right to use it whenever and where ever it is applicable. However there may be some consequences for it. Those consequences I want to address. However as much as everything else, I am thinking about the format in which I want to write that.
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Well, let’s see how quickly I can throw an intro together. Why? Because I am once again writing my intro as the last bit before posting this blog as I decided to do the easier bits first. I know, it’s kind a cheating but sue me. this is possibly going to be really the shortest intro yet but I am already more then an hour over my intended bed time and my body is letting me know it’s demanding sleep.

We have this annoying tick (or ticks in the family) first restless legs, then hiccups .. both have come and gone and at the moment my head is starting to pound like crazy. Clearly in the space of a week my clock has adapted at least somewhat to the new rhytm of being up, early. I won’t say bright.

Other than that, please remember there are still a few days of March left and next week blogs I will at least answer some of the questions that people have asked me. So if you have any more questions, always wanted to ask me something, now is the time to do it!

This weeks blog is the remainder of the “going deeper questionnaire” although I had to delete one question that was so, well sadistic and hypothetical that I could not, did not want to answer it. I mean asking a question about which life is more important. What kind of person asks these things, so you won’t find the answer here, with that said ..

let’s kick this thing off!!

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Well good evening, It’s been a busy week, I shan’t go into any more detail then that to protect parts of my real life. However good things are abound and hopefully the path I am on will stay it’s course well and true for the time being. It’s both very exciting and I think I amazed myself with how much change I have gone through the last week

The problem is that, well not really a problem I suppose in that sense of the world. It has shifted my sleeping patterns about three hours towards a rather more normal time that most normal people expect to adhere. Much unreasonable, but I have been good and going to bed a lot earlier then I have been going for a long long while.

So, what is the problem you ask? Well it means I am also a lot more tired and worn out. So, here I am sitting and committing some words to paper only to find out that it is getting closer to my bedtime (or rather closer to the time that my head will meet my keyboard unexpectedly), and I have little to nothing to write about.

What about the questions you were going to answer. Part of it is that I have had very little time to spit through my logfiles and find them. My deepest apologies to Miss Mermaid who submitted four questions, I will come around to them.

Also – this year seems to be much quieter on the asking question front then last year. But so be it. Remember, you can still file your questions as much as you want, except Mara ~*winks*~

So …. for this week: Eleven Questions, one at a time. This week is part 1.
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It’s been a busy week and lots has happened. However I think one thing shocked more then all the others. And that is, of course, the death of Sir Terry Pratchett. While I have not read many of his books, I have been a fan of him and reading through all of disc world has been long on my todo list. I have seen him in programs about his love for computers and of course astronomy and his battle with Alzheimer’s. He always came across as a wonderful human being with a zest for life. I think he is one of the great writers of our time and will be deeply missed.

On the personal front there are some changes happening and I am both scared out of my minds and really excited. It’s going to take quite some getting used to, but it is really promising and making things moving in a direction I am happy to go. Sorry to be overly vague but while I wanted to share the good news – I do have my privacy and part of my life to safeguard as well.

I have received several questions for March Question and Answer Blogging Challenge and I am going to get around to answering them from next week onward. I really need to set some time aside over the next week to gather and collate all the questions I have received. Remember you have until midnight on the last day of March to ask me any questions, as many as you like!

For today, mostly because I am actually quite worn out and want to be somewhat in bed on time, I am going to go with some generic questions to entertain you all. Let’s see how far I will get with them.

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There are somethings you hope for in life, a nice job, a nice quiet place to live where you feel safe from harm and above a good health. And it’s in that latter that things are seemingly going horribly awry. A couple of weeks I had a stinking cold, which seemed to coincide with the height of flu/cold going around. So with everything over and all, I thought that would be the last of it. Turns out it could not be further from the truth and the cold is back with a vengeance, bah.

As you can see I am feeling rather suitably sorry for myself tonight. But being under the weather is at least a little bit of an excuse. I just completely lost my train of thought here, so it took me a good five minutes to figure out what I had a good excuse for. But yes, I have an excuse for feeling a little bit sorry.

I like to remind everyone that this month is the March Bloggers Q&A month, so feel free to leave any questions that you want to ask. If you ask me questions over email or in-world, please be aware to actually note which one you want for the blog. Since people tend to ask me a lot of questions, sometimes it does get a bit confusing what people mean, and I hate to be rude to not answer their questions until a week or so later. So start asking people!

To star the questions of, I actually found several on Strawberry Singh’s blogging challenge page. I was looking for something light and easy to blog about  and I found two. This week will be the first edition, called “Have you ever SecondLifed”, and I will keep the 20 personal questions for another time when despair, ill health or lack of inspections strikes me.

So let’s get started and see if I have ever …. Second Lifed.
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