Archive for October, 2013

This week has been interesting. I have come down with a nasty cold that leaves me way to tired for my liking, not to mention coughing my lungs out every ten minutes or so. Even though I am taking good care of myself and drinking plenty of fluids and such, it seems to only get better with baby steps at the time. As such my mind feels half the time the consistency of cotton wool and I just hope that this will not show through in my writing. If it does I do apologise.

Well since last week was the first part of my kinky alphabet, and I promised that I was going to finish part II this week. While as I wrote last week I was going to do it all, it quickly became quite clear that despite my best intentions I was not going to make the full alphabet in one single blog-post. Well not at least unless I wanted to approach it the equivalent of a short story or even approaching a novella.

So this week blog will just be a continuity of that, which means that this week we shall be starting with M all the way through Z. Although I may in some places have to either skip a letter or make it up as I go along (which pretty much would define by and large my writing style anyway).

With that in mind, let’s get started.


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While I was browsing my RSS feed on my phone a couple of weeks ago, I found a blog entry where someone was going through the alphabet and using the letters per week to make a blog-post. I am sure this is much in line with various meme’s that have been circulating on the plurk for the Second Life bloggers, either based on colours or months or what have you not.

As the idea appealed to me, I decided to make this my current week blog top and thus hereby I am presenting my own kinky alphabet meme. By all means feel free to share in the joy and exploration. Now while I mentioned earlier that the previous examples of this kind of blog would only focus on one letter/aspect per week, I am going to combine it all in one blog post.

Sure, I could probably do one or two every week. The lure of that is of course that I would be settled for at least the coming twenty-six or thirteen weeks but despite that appeal, I am going to do a slightly shorter version and combine the whole alphabet into one blog.

With regards for my source of my inspiration, that will be from various sources, either drawing from my real life experience within the scene, although a lot will be from my second life or my imagination and fantasies (and warning those are plenteous).

So let’s see where this takes us and how many activities/letters I can give meaning to:


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Well they always say that you should start a blog with something witty and therefore for this weeks writing I have chosen to adapt a saying:

Absence makes the orgasm grow stronger …

This week blog will be dealing, as you can guess from the quote above, with the subject of orgasm denial, something to which at the moment I am frustratingly familiar with. But as they say there is nothing like writing about a subject which you are … intimately .. familiar with. It is also written as per a direct suggestion of my Mistress, since she wanted to explore my thoughts, desires and ideas on being placed under restrictions. And thus the idea was born to kill to birds with one stone and turn my thoughts into a blog post for me to share with her and the world.

In this blog I will write more about what Orgasm denial is, although to an extend the activity itself is pretty self explanatory by virtue of its own name, so this blog will cover some of the other aspects such as usage, types and different kind of scenarios in which orgasm denial may be an appropriate tool as well as my direct thoughts and feelings on the matter.

So in the coming paragraphs and pages of text, although by the time this will be published you will have just a big lap of text to read through but rest assured that this will be running in about a page of four A4 length. But let’s not digress and begin with understanding what makes orgasm denial such an .. heated topic.


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Last week I decided to leave out my dual subjected proposed blog in favour of a rant about the trend in most modern BDSM fiction. And I promised that this week at least I would try and write something about the use of honorifics in the scene.

Of course true to style I have in the meantime come up with at least two other subjects so it seems I am settled for the next few weeks or at least this week and the next, a lot depending on how well I get on with a singular topic.

As we all know, honorifics within the scene are pretty much standard fair. Even more so in online worlds such as IRC and Second Life where often honorifics is used religiously. Why is this? One of the possible scenario’s I can think off is that because these environments lack the nuances of non-verbal communication and thus rely on formalised spoken communication a lot stronger.

So what do I exactly mean when I am talking about honorifics? Honorifics or specifically honorific titles, can be defined as:

An honorific title is a word or expression with connotations conveying esteem or respect when used in addressing or referring to a person.

So now that we have a common definition, let’s work that one a bit out in more clearer language and examples.

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