Archive for June, 2014

It’s has been a crazy and busy week, that has not seen me spending much time online and in the virtual world. For those hours that I did, it was seriously good. I got once again time to spend with my Mistress, something we both needed desperately. There is so much to do. One of the rules we have is that she gets to approve all of my clothing. And since we have a huge back log of clothes and such to go through, this will take us a while.

I do hope that sooner and later we can visit some of the places I have frequented lately and introduce my Mistress to all my new friends and let her catch up with all the old ones at the same time. I think for those that know me, seeing me sitting at the feet of my Mistress, may be in for a shock as how well behaved and possibly more quiet I am then normal.

Am I saying that, that I don’t behave when she’s not with me? Of course not! But when I am with my Mistress, my primary attention will be focused on her before anyone else. And of course, I will be on my best behaviour. It’s going to be fun and I can already hear the snickering, and comments from the peanut gallery. Thank you guys! 😉

As for my blog this week, I have after searching around the net for a suitable meme, come across a YABTQM, or in suitable English: “yet another bloody twenty questions meme”. This is a blogger oriented meme, so probably light on pervy content, but one never knows.

So, let’s get started..!

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Good evening, welcome to another week of me writing about things that interest me, confuse me, I want to learn about or just catch my attention and I think that I have something to say about. Of course with plenty of rants.

It’s been a quiet but productive week so far and I have felt that I haven’t been as much in Second Life and around the net this week. The reason? Basically it has been a glorious week, with loads of sunshine. I have been making the most of it and attacking my garden, or rather the overgrown jungle that has threatened to take over the paving slaps. It needed to be done and while I am nowhere near finished, it already is looking way much better then it was. Still all in all, I think there is a serious case to be made for gardening with machete and flame throwers. It would definitely be more fun!

This week, I was really struggling to come up with a post, mostly because until an hour ago, writing has not been really on my mind with a lot of mundane real life stuff taking its place. But thanks to talking to some friends and reading one of the discussion logs, I came upon an idea that may be worth exploring a little bit more.

It’s also a topic that I haven’t really touched in a long time. So in that sense it makes for a good time to, albeit perhaps lightly, to revisit tonight. And what is that topic? It is about etiquette. The last time I wrote about etiquette, was in 2012 in my post about “protocol and behaviour in D/s relationships”. How does the time fly.

So with that, let’s have a look at Etiquette and how it applies.

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I am having a little bit of a sad. Well not really. But the fact is that the first game played for us in the world cup did not go well. What, you ask yourself? Are you writing about football? About sports? What perversion has penetrated this blog, this bastion of BDSM, reason and otherwise wonderful purveyance’s. Yes I know, I really never write about sport and watch it even less but I do watch European and  World championships. Not that I expect us to do well.

The downside of watching however is that the game ended rather late and I have not had a word committed to paper. Part because I have been rather stressed out and run of my feet today. Never a good thing for a weekend! Add to that a serious lack of sleep over the last few days (I always sleep a bit worse when it is rather warm), so I am probably not on my sharpest today.

Still as always I have a blog to write and write I will. While I may write a bit more freehand as I have done the last few weeks, with the occasional rant thrown in, I will and shall write. It does as always highlight my love-hate relationship with writing. I enjoy it and fight it, but at the end of the day I know I am happier when I write then when I am not.

So what can you expect in tonight blog. Well not perhaps as much as you hope for. I’ll try to get in some of my random thoughts about leading presentations. Having given them myself and loathed doing so, as well as having attended more then my fair share, I have seen various style and presentation forms and some work better then others.

And then there is the random and odd bits of information that I may sprinkle in at the end as well. Onwards and forwards we shall.


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What a difference a week makes! Last few weeks, I have perhaps been a little bit down. Missing your Mistress is never easy and while we have had some sporadically contact over email and IM, the truth of the matter is that we had not been together for just over seven months. A time where most people in a virtual world such as Second Life long ago would have tossed the proverbial towel in.

But this week turned all this all changed on the night from Wednesday to Thursday, when all of a sudden she popped on quickly for a little while (it was after all close to my bedtime) to say hello. Needless to say I was more than overjoyed. It’s always good to hear from her especially since at that point the last point of contact was a while back.

This is, however, not where my happiness ends. On Thursday, while I was doing something else and not actually in Second Life, I had my tablet up and running and just happened to get the notification how she was in world. Since I was not able to directly start the client up on my computer, I rebooted my computer and in the meantime hopped on the mobile client on my tablet.

Needless to say it was wonderful. We got some time to spend in both the afternoon and the evening. Something that was sorely needed for both of us I think and while we have a huge long way to go to catch up and work through some things (for example to go through all the clothing that I have bought), I am feeling much more happier.

So that is what has been happening this week, among others. I can hear the “uh oh” from the peanut gallery already..

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Another week and this time another blog that is not about BDSM, although in all fairness, there is a little bit of BDSM mentioned in the answers to the questions. Questions you ask? Yes. Strawberry Singh, posted one of her memes and feeling in the mood to write lighter, I decided to roll with that one. I always like to do her memes when the mood strikes me because frankly it makes for a little bit easier writing when you have to answer questions.

There are reasons that I do not feel happy to write to deeply about BDSM but that may change in the coming week. It is after all a topic that is close to my heart. But the fact is that there are certain things happening in my life that makes it at the moment a bit harder for me to write about it. It will come in time.

So, today’s meme is about asking personal questions about my Second Life. This is what, to an extend, the march q&a was about although the questions that I received were mostly generic or aimed at BDSM scenarios. This offers hopefully a closer insight into me as a person, both in Second Life and perhaps a little bit about the real me.

So onwards with twenty personal questions about my Second Life:

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