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It’s been a really interesting and chaotic week at the same time. I haven’t really thought much about blogging. Why? Mostly because real life, in part because of Second Life. It has been a rather interesting, if not emotional and hard week. Lots of new things to learn, lots of new ways to process and dealing with the eventual part of screwing up.

Well perhaps I should not call it screwing up. I make mistake. I am after all human, and learning new patterns, new ways of doing things, means that occasionally you do stumble, some like me, perhaps more then others. But I am slowly getting there and I think I really just need to focus on what I am doing rather then letting my brain run away with emotions and feelings. Easier said then done, but at least learning and recognising where my head is at times is a valuable lessons.

Anyway, while in the future I may write more about that this is not what I want to talk about tonight. Mostly there are a few topics I want to touch on. Those that have real relevance to me at the moment. Sounds mysterious doesn’t it? Maybe it does a little bit, but perhaps all will be revealed in time. While each of the topics involved may be fleshed out in a later blog, more in depth, this will be a start to explore my thoughts about this:

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How does a year go past. On the success of the March blogger Q&A challenge in 2014, comes the much waited and long longed for sequel of 2015! Now with even more oomph (or something like that). Of course this technically means I have now also fulfilled my “one blog a week” directive. But do not worry my dear readers, I shall post faithfully at the usual time!

So here goes as per usual. Some of you all may know this already. Throughout the blogosphere, March is known as the question and answer month. I have run the March Q&A challenge for the last three years previous as well, so I think we are sticking with this. So, the rules:

So here’s the deal ….
You ask me a question and I’ll answer them.

So for a whole month long you get to quick-fire,
interrogate, cross examine me to your hearts content.

I’ll end this neatly .. on the 31st of March at midnight UTC.

In return, I promise I will answer all and any question you will ask me. Even if that answer is “none of your business”. And no don’t go asking where I live if you are not prepared for an answer like that or much in line.

Leave your question in my comments,
poke me within Second Life,

or

send me an email at lex (dot) berchot (a-t) googlemail (dot) com.

Hopefully until soon!
Stay safe and have fun!
lexi

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Best laid plans, roads covered with best intentions. That seems to be my life as of late. Yes, I suppose I am feeling a little bit sorry for myself in many ways. It annoys me to know end that my energy levels are so very low and that I seem to be both missing and lacking the motivation to write and the drive to delve deeper into BDSM topics.

In essence the last few months, or rather ever since I moved house and still trying to fix things and get things squared away and sorted (why on earth do I have so much stuff!!). Just remember if you wonder why on earth I am still writing about this, think just for a moment if you will how much it irks me having to see all this in real life. 🙂 So perhaps a little bit of sympathy? Please?

On the plus side, I am making, tiny bits of progress. I am hoping to have most of the boxes squared away in some fashion by the time Christmas rolls around. I shall have people over to stay about prior to Christmas and after. Hopefully even some over New Year, which means I should at least be able to offer them a bed.

For those of my readers in the states, I do hope that you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving and then you enjoyed your time, hopefully with family and/or loved ones. It’s something that does not happen here at this side of the `pond’, although we do have the odd habbit creeping in such as “Black Friday“. I am not entirely sure if I approve of that, perhaps I shall dedicate my thoughts on that another time. Now is perhaps not the time.

It is however time for the main part of my blog! As I said, not having much inspiration and drive, forces me to look for the more light hearted content that allows me to fulfil my obligation to write. Yes, sometimes it does feel like an obligation, but on the other hand, now I am pounding away on my keyboard, listening to classical music (I always write better to classical music then say songs), I feel a certain satisfaction I am guessing. The fact that I find things to talk about, and if nothing else to write about; which gives you all a little window into my existence, drives me onwards. It’s strange how often the first five hundred words are always the hardest: Once that is done the rest often flows..

But onwards, let’s talk about Second Life Friends!

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It’s been a busy and warm week!!! I am sure if people actually hear the  the temperature that I have been dealing with they think that I am some sort of weirdly wuss creature that can’t handle anything. Truth to be told really, we are not build for heat around these parts. you know fifteen to twenty degrees will do us just fine.

The relative upside of this, is that I have seen some of the most awesome photos of the weather, beautiful and deadly lightning and striking super-cells in the air. Photos we have seen the last few years, usually from the United States. To have them from our coast in our weather is something a little bit special.

Real life has been incredibly busy the last week as well, which means I have had very little in the term of talking to people in either world, real or virtual about kink related things. The result of this is that I haven’t really got news of some of the things to write about. Terrible isn’t it?

But luckily I manage to dust of an old questionnaire I found and had stored in my folder full of ideas of once to write about. So I am going to give this a go. If you fancy giving this a go as well, please copy the questions as per usual and fill in the answers.

So, tell me your deepest, darkest secrets and I’ll tell you mine… (maybe…)
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It’s has been a crazy and busy week, that has not seen me spending much time online and in the virtual world. For those hours that I did, it was seriously good. I got once again time to spend with my Mistress, something we both needed desperately. There is so much to do. One of the rules we have is that she gets to approve all of my clothing. And since we have a huge back log of clothes and such to go through, this will take us a while.

I do hope that sooner and later we can visit some of the places I have frequented lately and introduce my Mistress to all my new friends and let her catch up with all the old ones at the same time. I think for those that know me, seeing me sitting at the feet of my Mistress, may be in for a shock as how well behaved and possibly more quiet I am then normal.

Am I saying that, that I don’t behave when she’s not with me? Of course not! But when I am with my Mistress, my primary attention will be focused on her before anyone else. And of course, I will be on my best behaviour. It’s going to be fun and I can already hear the snickering, and comments from the peanut gallery. Thank you guys! 😉

As for my blog this week, I have after searching around the net for a suitable meme, come across a YABTQM, or in suitable English: “yet another bloody twenty questions meme”. This is a blogger oriented meme, so probably light on pervy content, but one never knows.

So, let’s get started..!
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I have been thinking what to blog about all week. As I mentioned I have started to keep better track on what I want to write about, so the pressure is a little bit off in that regard. But there remains a large difference between the words written down when the inspiration strikes me, and actually working them out in a full time blog.

The result of that is that I have been struggling a little bit with how to give one of my blogs form and shape, although thanks to various discussions today, it is getting a little bit closer to the point of where I can sit down and hash out the thoughts in my head into a worthy blog post.

So with that came the question if I am not going to write about my intended subject, what will I write about then instead. Luckily the rescue this week came by the way of one of Strawberry Signh’s blogging challenges, and having blogged rather a lot lately (if nothing else in word count, since I still keep rigorously to my one blog a week so far) I thought it would be a nice change of pace if I blogged about something a little bit lighter this week before diving back into some more serious content next week.

This blogging challenge is really a follow up from her “Why do I Blog?” challenge which was last year in April and in which I also participated.Gosh, how times does fly in a year! So the format is pretty much as per usual; Ten different questions, answered truthfully and to the best of my abilities.

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Wow, what is this? A new blog on a Tuesday no less? That is rather unusual. Yes but there is a reason my dear readers.  And what is that you may ask?

Well as you know; March is known throughout the blogosphere as the question and answer month. I have run the March Q&A challenge for the last two years previous as well, so I think we are sticking with this. So, the rules:

So here’s the deal ….
You ask me a question and I’ll answer them.
 

So for a whole month long you get to quick-fire,
interrogate, cross examine me to your hearts content.

I’ll end this neatly .. on the 31st of March at midnight UTC.

In return, I promise I will answer all and any question you will ask me. Even if that answer is “none of your business”. And no don’t go asking where I live if you are not prepared for an answer like that or much in line.

Leave your question in my comments,
poke me within Second Life,

or

send me an email at lex (dot) berchot (a-t) googlemail (dot) com.

Hopefully until soon!
Stay safe and have fun!
lexi

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